I don’t know about you, but around this time of the year I’m usually single. During the beginning of February, some of us find ourselves paired with someone. While many of us are left with our favorite soap operas, including the pint of ice cream we nearly finished. Lets face the facts here, you’re either someones valentine or not. The hype of Valentines day throughout the media has somewhat produced this strict belief that being “single” or without a valentine on this specific day degrades you to some extent. Whats wrong with loving your independence of not being tied down , and loving yourself at that! Absolutely nothing! As far as I’m concerned. Nothings wrong with being free to do whatever you want with whomever. Bringing me to 6 things you can do by yourself with no strings attached on Valentine’s day!
Go To The Movies….Alone!
It doesn’t get better then you alone, centered watching the projection. When you watch a movie by yourself, you’re fully aware about whats going on. Zoned into the screen Not worried a bout the usual popcorn sounds next to you. Spending some private time with yourself allows you to relax and stay center. Sure it may seem weird at first, but making a connection with yourself is far more important. The more you know, the better you’ll grow to understand yourself.
I know it might sound weird, but trying on some of your favorite pieces of clothing gives you direction.So the next time you pick out an outfit, you’ll know which accessories go with it best! Play fair, and have some fun. Dressed up in whatever you like.
Give To The Community
Taking a trip to your local shelter, or community service location gives you the opportunity to help those in need. Communities are nothing without their residents.So feed the homeless and make a statement. That being pampered doesn’t require a special day, nor person.
Speaking of pampering. There’s nothing more relaxing then the perfect Spa trip.Put this on your itinerary for V-Day. Spa locations are known to be booked during this time of the season. Get your hair wet, enjoy the steam, and the massages. What ever you find yourself doing, the goal is to relieve yourself from the pressures of love, and lust. Emerging yourself completely, while finding your center.
Wake-up and go! Theres so much ahead of your day. Running is my favorite go to. Whenever I need to think. Or clear my mind. Running is always there. Be active, making sure your cardio is always tight and consistent.
Hang Out With Friends
Friends are the ultimate key to striving valentines day. No matter what, you can expect to have that one friend that isn’t in a relationship and also okay with it, sometimes.
Fun activities include :
- Play board games
- Have a heart to heart
- Go out to eat
- and much more!
Valentines shouldn’t be a day where we spend the most on the people that we love. No matter the time, our value to others should remain true to how we feel about them. So grab the remote, drink some wine and enjoy yourself because its our very own day! Our V-Day….
Always & Forever,